Home & Family TO BE FIXED

Scary night in Sydney

I have now officially been awake for 20 hours on the trot … after getting 2 hours sleep last night I was rudely awakened by a incredibly high-pitched and desperate lot of female screaming downstairs just outside our apartment.  After considering it could be a female in distress, I decided to get out of bed and see if I could find out what all the commotion was about … only to see two cops wandering around around the garages, which is directly below my bedroom window.  The screaming still continued, however, out the front of the apartment so I then wandered round to the front just in time to see a young female being escorted/supported up the driveway by another cop and what appeared to be her father.  At this stage she was screaming at the top of her lungs at full pitch, “oh my God, he’s dead, he’s dead” … at which point my eyes starting widening!

This was now 2.45am, and the next couple of hours were spent by me playing computer games while watching the show playing out below me – the garage was turned into a crime scene, with cops coming and going out of the back corner garage.  Lights came on and went off, the garage went up and went down … eventually crime scene tape went up, and the forensics team turned up in their navy blue “Police” suits, donning sexy blue rubber gloves, and in they went into the garage with their flashlights and cameras to begin documenting the crime scene.  This basically went on for a few hours, with them finally finishing their tasks at approx 5.45am.

At this point I wasn’t sure whether to go back to bed and try to get 1 more hour of sleep before work or whether to jump into the shower … in the end I figured I’d probably feel worse for having a mini sleep, so jumped into the shower instead – I got out just in time to see the coroner’s ‘hearse’ pulling into the driveway up in front of the garage.  The next 15-20 minutes was spent watching them set up the gurney, and load the body bag up, then tighten up the straps, cover up with a cloth cover, then whisk the body off into the hearse.  At 6.30am you wouldn’t have known anything had happened – except for the tiny bit of crime scene tape that is still tied to one of the garage doors.

That’s not the way I had expected to spend my Thursday night, that’s for sure!  Initially it was very shocking, but eventually it just became fascinating to me – we’ve now nicknamed our apartment block CSI: Sydney.  While I’m not in a hurry to view a repeat performance, it was certainly interesting to watch the event play out during the wee small hours of the morning.

There still hasn’t been anything in the news yet, so unsure whether it was a suicide or homicide – there was actually a brief spurt of fireworks at about 11.30pm last night (inbetween the thunder and lightning), then there was a break and one lone big “bang” that seemed different and a lot closer than the rest, so Katie and I have been wondering whether it was a muffled gunshot from within the garage.  I certainly didn’t hear any running footsteps or anything afterwards, so perhaps it was a suicide … either way, it was very very sad to see that body rolling out of the garage 😦

Anyway, after surviving a full day’s work (well, actually 10 hours of it) after 2 hours sleep, my eyes are now little slits, and I think it’s time to hit the hay for the night!  Katie and I celebrated our own version of Christmas tonight, and had our Christmas gifts as today is the last day we’d spend together until after Christmas – it was a really lovely night, as it always is when I have a night in with Katie, and I’ve been very very spoilt with some lovely presents tonight.  I’m definitely very blessed having the flatmate and friend that I have now … I’ve had some shockers, to say the least, in the past, so this is a real treat! 😀

Crikey, every little noise outside is making me jump tonight … I think for a short time we will be more aware of our surroundings out here – and we’ll be ensuring our doors and windows are triple-locked.  I just can’t believe that so far I seem to have been the only one at our end of the block who woke up to the screaming – both Katie and our bottom neighbour slept through the entire thing! :O

Canvaswork, Cross Stitch, Finishing, Framing, picture framing

Back briefly

Sorry I have been AWOL for a while … all I can say is that I’ve been struggling emotionally, I guess, for a number of weeks now, and I’ve been in a bit of a ‘black fog’ for want of a better way to put it.  Anyway, I have been planning a trip back down to Melbourne for about 2 months now, but it was then put on hold indefinitely after Erin passed away until I heard about when her service would be held in NZ – as that is now likely to be the middle of January, on Monday night it was all of a sudden ‘full steam ahead’ and Katie and I started making plans once again for the trip.  It’s taken me probably until yesterday before I started feeling brighter and looking forward to the trip, but now I think it will do me the world of good … getting away from home and away from the stress and pressures of work will be great.  Of course it just may make me more homesick for Melbourne and those friends I left behind …

When I get home I think I may need to take a quick visit to the GP as well … according to my hairdresser the itchy scalp I’ve been developing over the last few weeks is likely caused by stress and upheaval, as opposed to a reaction to my conditioner … I guess my body’s trying to tell me something!  Oh well, only two weeks left and I’ll get some TLC at home when I fly over to Mum and Dad’s for Christmas – something else that I’m really looking forward to.  Recent events brings it home even more that family is really important!

I haven’t picked up a needle for weeks now, so I guess that gives an idea of my mindset of late, as that’s super super unusual!  I did force myself to do a bit of home DIY, though, as I had a gift I needed to get ready for my trip to Melbourne.  Unfortunately other gifts still aren’t done, so I guess those’ll have to go in the post later. 

Here’s the results of my labours that I finished last night (just have to have the hooks/hangers screwed into the back):

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A framing job I did first, but in a ready-made mat and frame from Target:

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The gift I needed to get finished for this weekend (as it would be too hard to post) – this is for my ex-flatmate and friend Lisa for her birthday:

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Then this one is especially for me – LHN’s Hannah Purington, to match our lounge’s marine/blue theme):

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The piece de resistance – Graeme Ross’ Tiger … I’ve been waiting many many years to see this one framed!

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And, finally, the one frame that I cocked up a bit (this was my 2nd framing attempt) … the corner shifted slightly when I was tightening up the clamps and I didn’t notice – c’est la vie, I still love it 🙂

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These are all photos taken prior to adding the glass – I can’t believe it only cost AU$29 for 5 pieces to be cut, and the canvaswork and tiger pieces are decent sizes!  Anyway, I’m really quite proud of these for first attempts – it feels wonderful to be able to say “I did all that” … from the stitching to the mat cutting, frame making, and the actual framing itself.  I think I’ll be doing more in the future to give myself some more practice, and get some items out of the finishing pile.

Anyway, I’d better go get my packing done … it’s 8pm and I still haven’t even started yet!  Maybe there’s still a bit of reluctance hanging around under that black cloud, but I’m sure that’ll be shaken off by the morning 🙂

Friends & Family, Home & Family TO BE FIXED

Life goes on … Christmas Party 2009

I can only say this has been a really stressful and emotional week, and I’m glad it’s all over … the week saw the passing of beautiful dear Erin, I found Mum has been in hospital recently, and amidst all of this I was the key staff member involved with releasing a new product this week, due to our department’s project manager being away on leave – unfortunately the latter project was quite stressful in itself as everything didn’t got 100% as planned, and it meant a few extra hours work this week (read 10-11 hour days).  All this while struggling to comprehend the news of Erin’s passing.  Not to mention also dealing with two other projects, including daily hook-ups with the sites … it didn’t leave much time to ‘breathe’ this week!

Last Sunday I finally decided to pluck up the courage to dress up for our work Christmas party (which was last night).  I bought a wig, and some fabric and tunic pattern, and started assembling it.  I did a bit more on Monday night, then put it to one side for the next night.  Of course then I found out about Erin passing away – when I came home I just didn’t have the heart to keep making my costume, then on Thursday afternoon the whole stress of the week got to me, and I had a mini melt-down … I just didn’t want to have to “persevere” and put on a brave face anymore, after such a stressful time at work – and I certainly didn’t want to have to smile at everyone at the Christmas party, so I made the decision not to go, or to just not dress up and just go for the dinner.

At 8pm Thursday, on the way home from work, I started thinking that perhaps I should get things ready ‘just in case’ I felt a bit brighter in the morning, as I was already starting to feel a little better, so did an emergency dash to Spotlight and Big W to pick up pantyhose and false eyelashes, a handbag and a different wig … and got my costume dress finished along with a necklace and earrings – at almost 1am I finally fell into bed … but I’m so glad I did do that …

Yesterday morning I felt so much brighter, and was actually starting to look forward to the evening’s festivities – we got dressed at work, and hit the streets in our get-up – staff that were still in the office were killing themselves laughing at our outfits.  We travelled in the lift with another colleague on our floor, and it was only at the bottom when we were walking out and she heard my voice, that she said “Oh my God, it’s YOU!!!” – that was a real highlight of the night, and definitely got the laughter happening to start off the night.

The function was at Harold Park Raceway, where we had a private suite overlooking the racetrack (harness racing).  I have to admit I don’t like horse racing, so I pretty much ignored the whole racing thing, but we had a load of fun.  I caught up with one of my dearest colleagues who was made redundant earlier in the  year, which was a highlight of the night for me, as I miss him dearly in the office, and it was great fun seeing everyone dressed up – the dress-up theme was the “decade of your birth” … mine being the 60’s.  Here are the “three stooges” from the night – Lisa (70’s Elvis), Katie (80’s rock chick), and myself (60’s Hairspray lookalike … not planned, that thought just came to my head as were driving to the function in the taxi!).

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And a close-up of those lashes!  I think those eyelashes were everyone’s highlight of the costume, I had so many comments LOL.

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Unfortunately we didn’t think to take a full-length photo.  We had to vote for the best costume of the night, and I was really shocked to find my costume had been voted the best!!  And everyone was super impressed that I’d made it all myself (um, including myself – I am personally amazed that I could remember how to follow the pattern instructions … maybe it really IS like riding a bike??).  I was given a lovely gift of a couple of bottles of Margaret River wine as my prize.  We also had other prizes drawn out, so that everyone came home with something, and I won another bottle of wine from that … good thing we’re alcoholics in this household haha.

Anyway, all-in-all I’m really really glad I went – I had a really good time, and aside from one moment of feeling a little sad when I was talking about going home for Christmas, which of course made me starting thinking of other home events, the evening was a real success and one that helped to put aside the crappy week … of course now I’m sporting a hangover this morning, but it was definitely worth it 🙂

Now I need to get all those chores done that I haven’t had the mental energy to tackle over the last couple of weeks … after I find the Panadol …

Home & Family TO BE FIXED

R.I.P. Erin

I forgot to send myself the photo that I wanted to post along with this note, but I forgot, so I’ll add it tomorrow.  In the meantime I have used one of Erin on her wedding day, just a few years ago.  The following was just posted on my Facebook status.

“R.I.P. dear sweet Erin – you were taken from us way too early in life – you will be missed here on earth, while those on the other side will have the opportunity to bask in your sweet smile and gentle personality.  My heart breaks for loved ones left behind, and I wish Carl and the boys all the strength you need to endure these emotional days, also to all other members of the family – I love you …”

Mid-morning today I received an email from Carl to say that Erin passed away just before 5pm UK-time yesterday.  I am still a bit shell-shocked by the news, and wish I could do something for Carl and the two boys – no words can truly express how I’m feeling today, and this is nothing compared to what Carl and Erin’s family are going through. 

Along with many other people who have suffered greatly over the course of this year, I personally can’t wait for this hideous year to end!  There have been way too many tragedies and trials this year … bring on 2010 and some brighter days …

Flowers Trees & Gardens, Pohutukawa, Ruby Tuesday, Travel - New Zealand

Ruby Tuesday

Here is my choice for this week’s Ruby Tuesday – and you can’t get much more ruby red than this … this is the Pohutukawa tree, which is known as the NZ Christmas Tree, as the trees are festooned with flowers in December. I couldn’t settle on just one photo, so you get a couple of close-ups and what the trees can look like overall … just LOVE the Pohutukawa trees!

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Ruby Tuesday